Pairing a Motorola HS810 bluetooth headset with Motorola Droid

On the Droid, go to Settings>Wireless & networks>Make sure bluetooth is turned on (green checkmark)>tap Bluetooth Settings

Now, with you HS810 headset closed, hold in the call button until the blue light comes on. Hit the Scan for Devices on the Droid. Open the arm on the headset. The Droid should discover the headset and prompt you to add it. Once it is added, it is paired and should be usable.

Motorola Droid Visual Voicemail too quiet

For me, this one was easy. Just hit the menu button to bring up the menu and toggle the speaker. My speaker was turned off. Once I did that, messages were louder and easy to hear.